The Ultimate Wedding Essentials Checklist

Planning a wedding means juggling a thousand little details โ€” but some things are absolutely essential. This wedding essentials checklist rounds up all the must-have items, accessories, and behind-the-scenes details that can make your big day run smoothly. From ceremony staples to reception must-haves, this is your go-to guide for everything you donโ€™t want to forget.

๐Ÿ’ก Top Tip: Print this checklist and keep it with your wedding folder โ€” find it on Etsy here.


Ceremony Essentials

  • Marriage licence
  • Vow books or printed vows
  • Rings (with box or cushion)
  • Reserved seating signs
  • Tissues for emotional moments
  • Ceremony music or playlist
  • Ring pillow or box (for ring bearer, if using)
  • Aisle runner or flower petals (optional)

Reception Essentials

  • Seating chart
  • Place cards or escort cards
  • Table numbers
  • Menus (optional but lovely!)
  • Guestbook + pens or markers
  • Cake knife and server
  • Favour display or gift table
  • Toasting flutes

Bride Essentials

  • Wedding dress or outfit (plus hanger!)
  • Undergarments and shapewear
  • Comfortable shoes (and backups!)
  • Hair and makeup essentials
  • Emergency kit (plasters, pins, safety pins, etc.)
  • Perfume and deodorant
  • Something old, new, borrowed, and blue

Groom Essentials

  • Suit or tuxedo (including shirt and tie)
  • Dress shoes (and socks!)
  • Pocket square or boutonniรจre
  • Grooming kit
  • Watch or accessory
  • Vows or speech notes

Wedding Party Essentials

  • Outfits and accessories
  • Bouquets and boutonnieres
  • Gifts or thank you cards
  • Timeline or schedule handouts
  • Snacks and drinks during prep

Detail & Dรฉcor Essentials

  • Signage (welcome sign, bar sign, etc.)
  • Lighting (fairy lights, lanterns, candles)
  • Extra dรฉcor for tables and entryways
  • Blankets or parasols for outdoor weddings
  • Card box for gifts

Miscellaneous Must-Haves

  • Vendor contact list
  • Day-of timeline
  • Printed copies of key documents
  • Tips/envelopes for vendors
  • Phone charger or portable battery
  • Rain plan (if outdoors)
  • Overnight bag if staying away

๐Ÿ’ก Try This:

Grab the printable Wedding Essentials Checklist and tick off each item as you go โ€” download it here.

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Donโ€™t forget a thing on your big day โ€” pin this list to your wedding planning board!

Amy x

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P.S. Explore more planning tools and checklists throughout the blog to keep every detail on track.

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